RE: If you have the patience to explain that to me I'll do my best to try to understand.
Sorry I don't offer that level of support in this forum - but I can point you in the right direction where you can learn how to do it yourself.
Key is using Firebug or Chrome Dev Tools to examine the HTML and CSS of your CF7 form in detail. Once you understand how the HTML and CSS is configured in your CF7 form, you should be able to see the CSS changes you need to change the appearance of the form to suit your requirements.
You can learn about these extremely useful developer tools at the following links.
https://getfirebug.com/wiki/
http://www.evotech.net/blog/2007/06/introduction-to-firebug/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sHbYpl1XFiM
http://www.tipsandtricks-hq.com/debugging-javascript-code-with-firebug-1899
https://developers.google.com/chrome-developer-tools/